[multani shahzadi]

important discusion for females(multani shahzadi)

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aj shahzadi ap kely jo article layi hy who hy parda aur hijab main differnce jis sy ap ko clear ho ja ga ki kai chez teakh hy.aur ais article ko prhny ky bad ap ko lga ga ki hum kia ker rahi hain.


Hijab wo nahi hai jo hum fashion ke torr per wear kertay hen,ye sirf aik clothing ka piece hi nahi.hijab aik attitude hai,aik thinking aur behaving ka way.
Aisa bhi hotta hai jab women ne clothing ki hui hotti hai but wo itni transparent aur tight hotti hai ke es ke bawajood wo naked hi hotti hai that uss ko hardly hi hum clothing kah saktay hen.even ager clothing long ho aur saath ye tight aur figure hugging ho tu ye women ki shape ko reveal keray gi aur es ko hijab tu bilkul bhi nahi kah saktay.
Hijab sirf head per scarf wear kerna nahi hai, es ka ye meaning hai ke aap apna poora awra cover kerain.
Aik women ka awra uss ki full body hotti hai.uss ko apnay hairs,torso,arms,legs aur feet cover kernay chahiyain.her cheez ko cover kernay ka best way jilbaab/abaya wear kerna hai aur head per aik scarf.aur ye itna baggy aur loose honna chahiay that uss se aap ki body ki shape na show ho.wo transparent bhi nahi honna chahiay.kuch women niqaab bhi wear kerti hen jo ke face ko cover kerta hai,es ke saath often gloves bhi wear kiay jatay hen jin se hands ko cover kiya jatta hi.
"aur believing women se kahoo ke apni gaze lower ker lain (forbidden things na dekhain), aur apnay private parts ko protect kerain (illegal sexual acts se) aur apni adornments ko show off mat kerain un ke ilawa jo apparent hoon (jaisa ke dono eyes jo ke dekhnay ke liay necessary hen, ya hands ki outer palms ya aik eye ya dress jo veil ho, gloves, head cover, apron), aur veils ko porri tara draw kerain (i.e un ki bodies, faces, necks, aur bosoms sub cover hoon)." Surah an-Nur 30-31.
Women ko khud ko beautify nahi kernna chahiay jab wo bahir jaye, jaisa ke make-up kerna, perfume, ya wo shoes jo load noice paida kerain.make-up kerna aur perfume sirf husband tak hi reserve rahna chahiay,kisi bhi outside strange person ke liay nahi! Bahot sari western women sirf es liay khud ko bahot make-up me caked ker ke, perfume ke clouds me aur non-covering cloths me bahir jatti hen ke wo opposite sex ki attention apni teruf draw ker sakain.
Jo mainay ooper mention kiya hai ke hijab aik attitude hai aur ye aik way of thinking aur behaving hai tu es ka meaning ye hai ke uss ko proper muslim women ki tara act kerna chahiay. Koi flirting nahi, men se casually koi baat nahi, zayada loudly baat na kena ( voice bhi awra hai)! Aik aadmi ko women ki voice attractive lag sakti hai) etc.humain khud ko humesha uss diginity per rakhna chahiay after all jab hum bahir world me jatay hen tu hum Islam ko represent kertay hen.
Aisay logon ko bhi hum face kertay hen jo hijab ko nahi sumajhtay aur negative comments direct kertay hen aur aurat per staring kertay hen.lakin aap un peoples ko stare kertay huay eventually notice nahi kerti hen.aap hijab me confortable hoon gi.aap strong hoon gi.ye uss point ki teruf lay jaye ga jab aap ko hijab wear kernay ki habit ho gi tu ager aap kisi time hijab wear na kerain tu khud ko cloths ke ooper hijab ki coverning ke binna naked feel kerain gi!
But hijab sirf women ke liay nahi hai.men ka bhi awra hai.un ke navel se knees tak( ye absolutely minimum hai, ye recommend kiya jatta hai ke men ko khud ko fully aur modestly dress kernna chahiay).un ko bhi apni gaze lower kerni chahiyain aur mens ko bhi tight aur revealing cloths nahi wear kernay chahiyain.so wo men jo ke aisay dresses ko wear kernay per insist kertay hen un ko again soochna chahiay!
So, hum hijab kuin wear kertay hen? apnay husband ke liay? Mosque me peoples ko impress kernay ke liay ya waisay doseroon ko impress kernay ke liay that hum Islamic type log hen?Big NO.hum hijab ko ***** ko please kerny ke liay wear kertay hen, kisi aur ke liay nahi
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